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Patricia "Pat" Ann Musante Snyder

September 13, 1940 ~ August 26, 2025

Born in: Norfolk, VA
Resided in: Rocky Mount, NC

ROCKY MOUNT – Patricia “Pat” Ann Musante Snyder, age 84, passed away on Tuesday, August 26, 2025.  Born in Norfolk, VA on September 13, 1940, she was the daughter of the late Clotilda and George Davenport.  She was also preceded in death by her husband, Danny George Snyder; her daughter, Delores Ann Snyder; and her sister, Florence Cradle.

Pat graduated from St. Leo College.  Pat was a member of First Baptist Church of Rocky Mount.  She was a former rehabilitation department head at Naval Alcohol Rehabilitation Center in Norfolk, VA for 22 years.  Pat was the former President and CEO at the Mary Frances Center for 18 years.  She enjoyed going to the NASCAR and INDY races, camping with family, traveling with her grandkids, and spending time at her church and with friends.  Pat’s favorite movie was The Wizard of Oz which she used the theme “There’s No Place Like Home” at the Mary Frances Center and when the patients graduated, she gave them ruby slippers.  She was an active member of AL-Anon.  Danny and Pat enjoyed taking drives through the countryside.  Pat was always available to listen when anyone was in need of a friend.  Every morning, she enjoyed writing her thoughts in her journal.

Pat is survived by her daughter, Eva Papa and husband, Joseph, of Newport, and their children, Jonathan Papa and Michael Papa; her son, Jeffrey Anderson and wife, Kristi, of ME and their children, Heather Anderson, Ian Anderson, and Kasey Anderson; her cousin, Worth Meads; her brother, Jerry White; her niece, Karen Courtney and husband, Hank; and her extended family, Cindy Mitchell, Stacie Miles, Bradley Mitchell, Christine Herdman, Robert and David Barnett.

A Funeral Service to celebrate Pat’s life will be held on Friday, September 5, 2025, at 2:00 PM in the Chapel of Wheeler & Woodlief Funeral Home & Cremation Services with Chaplain Shawn Crumley officiating. Visitation with the family will be from 12:30 PM to 1:30 PM prior to the service in the Atrium of Wheeler & Woodlief Funeral Home.

A committal service will be held on Saturday, September 6, 2025, at 1:00 PM at Forest Lawn Cemetery, 8100 Granby Street, Norfolk, VA  23505.

The family would like to say a special thank you the staff at Gentiva Hospice for their care and dedication for Pat and the family.

Flowers are welcome or memorials may be made in Pat’s memory to Disabled American Veterans, 5623 Duraleigh Road, Suite 121, Raleigh, NC  27612.

Arrangements entrusted to Wheeler & Woodlief Funeral Home & Cremation Services, 1130 N. Winstead Avenue, Rocky Mount, NC 27804.  You may share memories and condolences with the family by visiting www.wheelerwoodlief.com.

 

Services

Funeral Service: Friday, September 5, 2025 2:00 pm - 3:00 pm

Chapel of Wheeler & Woodlief Funeral Home
1130 N. Winstead Avenue
Rocky Mount, NC United States

27804
252-451-8800

Visitation: Friday, September 5, 2025 12:30 pm - 1:30 pm

Room:

Atrium of Wheeler & Woodlief Funeral Home
1130 N. Winstead Avenue
Rocky Mount, NC United States

27804
2524518800

Burial: Saturday, September 6, 2025 1:00 pm - 1:30 pm

Forest Lawn Cemetery
8100 Granby Street
Norfolk, VA

23505

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Charities

The family greatly appreciates donations made to these charities in Patricia "Pat" Ann Musante Snyder 's name.

Disabled American Veterans

5623 Duraleigh Road, Suite 121

Raleigh ,

NC

27612

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  1. Some lives are so deeply woven into ours that even when they are gone, the threads of love remain. You blessed me with kindness, laughter, and faith, and I will carry that with me always. Heaven gained a soul that left a mark of love and grace here on earth. I am grateful for every moment your life touched mine.

    The memory of the righteous is a blessing. Proverbs 10:7

  2. Pat was truly an Angel on Earth. I was one of her patients at the Mary Frances Center from 8/2007-5/2008. Pat loved me til I could love myself and showed me unconditional love. She taught me how to live without any substances. Once Pat became ill, I made it my mission to visit her every single month, both in Rocky Mount and Newport. So thankful her daughter allowed me to come each month and especially the Thursday (8/21), before Pat left this earthly home for her forever heavenly home and to be reunited with her husband Danny and her creator.

    Really going to miss her, she was definitely an angel on earth!

    • She came into my life with visits to Mary Frances years ago. Reconnecting was such a blessing. Beautiful heart and will truly miss her. Her love of what she did for so many. Thanks be to GOD

  3. I worked with Mrs Pat @ Mary Frances Center I CN remember when I wrote my resignation to leave she wouldn’t receive it bc she said that place needed me and I end up staying a little while longer. She was a jewel. Family I’m sorry for ur loss. God strengthen you all 🙏💐

  4. She was a great lady. Sweet, kind and full of love. We will miss you greatly. Love you Aunt Pat. RIP in the arms of our Lord Jesus.

  5. I would like to take this opportunity to send my sincere condolences and Prayers to the family. I had the pleasure of working with this humble lady at Mary Frances. I know she will be missed

  6. Aunt Pat you will surely be missed by Karen and I and you just made Heaven ❤️ a better place to be because you are surely a great Lady.RIP Aunt Pat and God be with you for ever.

  7. For the short time I knew Miss Pat I loved her dearly and it felt as if I had known her forever. She was such a sweet and thoughtful woman. She loved the Lord and was very passionate about helping those in recovery . I will miss our night time text messages with Bible verses and prayers for each other.


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