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Francis "Marion" Barnes

May 16, 1945 ~ September 2, 2026


Resided in: Rocky Mount, NC

ROCKY MOUNT – Francis “Marion” Barnes, age 81, passed away on Wednesday, September 2, 2026, surrounded by loved ones.  Born on May 16, 1945, he was the son of the late Alice Abernathy and Guy Earl Barnes.  He was also preceded in death by his sisters, Alice Barnes Robertson and Judith Barnes Agnew.

As an athlete, businessman, philanthropist, mentor to many, and a great friend, Marion made a huge impact on countless lives.  In high school, he was part of the undefeated state champion 1962 Rocky Mount Blackbirds football team.  That championship launched an amazing feat: that year Rocky Mount emerged as the state champions not only in football, but also basketball and baseball.  Marion went on to play football for the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill, where he played linebacker and was also a starter on special teams. He graduated in 1968. He was passionate about football, was a fervent Tar Heel fan for the rest of his life, and had a great football mind, even working as a scout for NFL teams.

After college, he enlisted in the U.S. Marine Corps, then began his career in transportation. He gained industry experience while living in Miami and working for the Fruehauf Trailer Corporation, after which he returned to Rocky Mount.  Along with his business partner Kaye Boone, he founded Frontier Trailer Associates, specializing in the distribution, sale, and leasing of trailers. Marion was a prominent and respected figure in the field, and the company grew to develop a national and even international reputation and reach.  His contributions in education and athletics were substantial. His leadership and fundraising efforts brought in over $2 million for Wesleyan University’s stadium expansion. He was also an important part of funding the Stallings-Evans Sports Medicine Center at UNC-Chapel Hill. This facility includes the F. Marion Barnes Physician Exam Room, named to honor his contributions. Additionally, he was a key figure in establishing the Danny Talbott Cancer Center at UNC Nash Health Care.  Marion was a huge personality, a leader in all situations, beloved by the many dogs he rescued and raised over his life, a skilled fisherman, widely knowledgeable about music (especially honky-tonk and 1970s soul), and a shining light of what it means to achieve goals through determination and passion.

He is survived by Kate Barnes, his wife of 34 years; his brother-in-law, George “Jody” Witt of Murrells Inlet, SC, as well as his nieces and nephews, Jeff Knight (Tonie) of Austin, TX, Lynn Ross (Tyler) of Atlanta, GA, Laura O’Dowd (Lawrence) of Raleigh, Lisa Ben-Meir (Jake) of Rye, NY, Chandler Witt Cox (Dustin) of Andrews, SC, and Collin Witt (Sojin) of Gaithersburg, MD.

Services will be held on Wednesday, September 9, 2026, at 3:00 PM at Lakeside Church, 1501 Sunset Avenue, Rocky Mount, NC 27804.

In lieu of flowers, gifts can be made to North Carolina Wesleyan University, 3400 N. Wesleyan Blvd. Rocky Mount, NC 27804 or UNC Health Nash Foundation, 2460 Curtis Ellis Drive, Rocky Mount, NC 27804.

Arrangements entrusted to Wheeler & Woodlief Funeral Home and Cremation Services, 1130 N. Winstead Avenue, Rocky Mount, NC 27804.  You may share memories and condolences with the family by visiting www.wheelerwoodlief.com.

Services

Celebration of Life: Wednesday, September 9, 2026 3:00 pm - 4:00 pm

Lakeside Church
1501 Sunset Avenue
Rocky Mount, NC 27804

(252) 446-0126

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Charities

The family greatly appreciates donations made to these charities in Francis "Marion" Barnes 's name.

NC Wesleyan University

3400 N. Wesleyan Blvd.

Rocky Mount,

NC

27804

Odin's Orphans

P.O. Box 244

Spring Hope,

NC

27882

UNC Health Nash Foundation

2460 Curtis Ellis Drive

Rocky Mount,

NC

27804

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  1. Mr. Barnes, you meant so much to me. My heart is so full and heavy over your passing to Heaven. I will never forget you. I know that you have had a great welcoming celebration in Heaven. I’m going to keep a check on Kate.
    ❤️❤️

  2. So sorry to hear this. Prayers for his family during this time of loss. He has been well known throughout my career in tankers and will be missed by so many.

  3. Marion and I grew up together in Edgemont along with Eddie Edmonds and the Bridgers brothers. Such a good time we hard. I will miss Marion.

  4. KATE, MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH ALL OF YOU AS YOU MOVE THROUGH THIS MOST DIFFICULT AND TRYING TIME. THE MANY, MANY ACTS OF HIS KINDNESS WILL BE REMEMBERED AND MISSED BY MANY. MAY GOD BLESS AND KEEP YOU. skip

  5. Kate, George and I are so saddened to hear about Marion’s passing. Marion and I go back to early childhood days, from First United Methodist Church Sunday school days through RMSH days… He was always a good friend and we will miss him! Prayers of comfort and peace are sent to you and family!

  6. Marion and I grew up about three blocks from each other. In the early 50’s, we were in the same Cub Scout Den. Our mothers were the “Den Mothers.” One time, my mother said, “Marion is something else!”
    As the years rolled by, I’ve come to know of Marion’s kindness and generosity. These multiple unselfish gifts are a major part of Marion’s legacy. He is indeed something else!

  7. Kate, I am so sorry for your loss.As big as Marion was in life, he will be big in everyone’s memories. Living across the street from him, I knew him all my life. He rattled our doors and windows as he came to see my brother, bellowing “Page”! Then he and Ben became tight over Carolina sports and BCC. I feel lucky to have known and loved Marion.

  8. Marion is a man who you knew where he stood. Total transparency no matter the issue. He loved a lot but especially Rocky Mount, his beloved Tar Heels, Benvenue CC and Wesleyan University. He was one of a kind and will be missed. Lord please be with Kathryn and Kate during these difficult times.

  9. We’ll miss you dearly Marion. We have so many great memories. For me, it goes all the way back to when Matt and I burned our feet on the beach in Topsail as little “boneheads”. How can we forget our adventurous drive to Whitey’s Booze & Burgers (in a blizzard)? Over the years we’ve enjoyed countless spring training games, Tarheels football tailgates, so many great family gatherings, and maybe a Budweiser or two. I can’t think of those times without smiling and feeling so much love. You’ll always be Uncle Marion to us. May God welcome you into the light of His face.

      • Marion was indeed a unique individual. We played together on the lions club midget football team and made the allstar team together. He also was our extra point kicker and true to his uniqueness, he DROPPED kicked our extra points. He was. fun to be around.

  10. My condolences go out to the entire Barnes’ family at this sad time of loss. I knew Marion mostly from our days playing basketball together in the early 1980’s at the old downtown YMCA. We had a great group of regulars, mostly playing during the noon-time hour, at least twice a week for several years. Marion always brought a smile to the group with his great sense of humor. I’m truly sorry to hear of his passing.

  11. Marion was a friend for so many years. We will really miss him. Lots of memories, spring training, Cleveland Indians, World Series baseball games, football, Super Bowl Football Games, weddings, the list goes on and on. He was part of our family. Our son Mike and Granddaughter Emily both went to UNC Chapel Hill. It was nice to have Marion near by. We would spend time having a couple of Buds. He called me “Bonehead, and I called him “Motor Mouth” , or “Mouth of the South”
    Marion was a great guy and we are so happy we were part of his life and him ours.

  12. In the early fifties, my mother, brother and I would often go to Topsail Beach in the summer. We went as guests of Sylvia Bell’s parents who had a cottage and a rental apartment that we stayed in. Dr. Bell’s next door neighbor on Sycamore St. in Rocky Mount was Marion’s parents, Guy and Alice Barnes. They also had a cottage at Topsail Beach that they frequented. This led to my first encounter with a young boy that was Marion Barnes.. Let me just say that from an early age, Marion was a force to be reckoned with. Marion grew up to use that force to become a successful businessman and do a lot of good things for many people, not to mention UNC and NCWU. Marion was fortunate to have a lot of friends and to have Kate to take care of him with his health issues.

  13. Marion,

    You were a joy to work with the last 5 years. You had a spark and a joy that was contagious, as well as a heart that was even bigger than your voice!

    To Marion’s family – I am so sorry for your loss. Rocky Mount lost a great man, but his memories and stories will forever stay with me.

  14. I first purchased a petroleum tanker from Marion in 1975, and through all the years, I never purchased a petroleum trailer from anyone else. Marion was always energetic, dependable, and truly a pleasure to do business with. I valued our friendship and the many years we did business together. My condolences on his passing.

  15. Rojo , as I always called you, you will be missed more than tears can flow. You were one of the good one’s left. Our years at Carolina are stories to behold
    Kate , to you and the family may God give you grace , solace and strength during this time. Rest in heaven my dear friend

  16. So many memories, so many conversations, so many trailer deals made. You were truly one of one and I will miss you dearly. The transport industry has suffered a huge loss and your impact on it was tremendous.

  17. My condolences to the family and what a legacy. I didn’t know Marion personally but my memories of his time on the UNC football team and his “participation” in the last great brawl in ACC college basketball history is one of my favorite memories from UNC. As a full court fight broke out at the end of the UNC v. State game in Carmichael, several members of the UNC football team stormed the court to come to the rescue of our players. One was, of course, Marion. Ultimately, 4 policemen, holding his arms and legs, carried him off the court, with Marion yelling, “Let me at them.” No harm was done but Marion was determined to stick up for the Heels. May he rest in peace for a life well lived.

  18. Had a great trip to the UNC – Notre Dame football game with Don Stallings on Don’s airplane. Really enjoy catching up on old times from Red oak to UNC. Missing Marion and Don these days.

  19. When I got the chance it was always a pleasure talking with you. I wish we had more of those opportunities but God called you home. I am so happy that I got to know you and have you share a little wisdom and some thoughts on life. Rest well uncle Marion.

  20. I grew up next door to Marion. I have many fond memories from childhood adventures in our neighborhood. When I think of Marion, I smile. 🥰🙏

  21. Rest peacefully Uncle Marion! I have some great memories of you on topsail beach when I was younger. Especially a boat ride or two with Mr.Brown! I always admired your love for dogs and how you took them in. You will be missed. <3

  22. When I was in grades 1 though 4, I lived near Marion. I remember Page Keel and I playing football in Marion’s yard with him. He was two years older, and I was kind of small for my age, so I played with great fear that he might accidentally kill me when tackling me. He must have held a little something back because I survived those games unscathed. I doubt, however, that anyone else he tackled while playing at RM Wilson Jr. High, for the state champion Blackbirds of RMSH, or the Tar Heels would make that same assertion. And I doubt he ever “held a little something back” in his business or philanthropic endeavors. And through the many years of our lives, he never held anything back when he greeted my wife or me, always making us feel he was really glad to see us and that we were special. He was quite a man.


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