ROCKY MOUNT – On Sunday, April 23, 2023, Charles David Ward left this earth to be with his wife, Nell, and daughter, Charlotte, in heaven. Born in Nash County, NC on May 31, 1925, he was the son of the late Garcie Phillip “G.P.” Ward and Lula Mae Smith Ward. He was also preceded in death by his wife, Nell Martin Ward; his daughter, Charlotte Lynn Ward; his sister, Geraldine Ward Hunter; and his brother, Moody Hanes Ward.
Charles was truly a member of the “greatest generation”, having enlisted in the United States Navy during World War II at the age of 18 immediately after his graduation from Rocky Mount Senior High. Charles served 22 months on the destroyer USS Tarbell.
After the war, he returned to Rocky Mount and married the love of his life, Nell Martin. Into this union, three children were born; Nancy, Julie, and Charlotte. Charles and Nell were married 65 years until Nell’s passing in 2015. Charles was a devoted father to his three daughters, always supportive of them throughout their lives.
In 1960, he left his employer to start his own business. With two young children and one on the way, he took a tremendous leap of faith leaving his job and going out on his own. Charles’s father loaned him funds to purchase a used pick-up truck, and Ward’s Appliance became a reality. In October 1974, a fire swept through the building creating substantial damage and destroying most of the contents. Within a matter of days, Charles and Nell reopened the store in a temporary location. They moved back into the original location in the late spring of 1975, where they remained until closing the business in April, 2016. Charles and Nell worked together in the business for over 55 years. Through the years, many customers walked through the door at Ward’s Appliance and received the help they needed. When Charles was out in public, former customers would come up to him telling stories about how Ward’s Appliance had helped them. Many people referred to him as the “appliance man”.
Charles was truly devoted to his church, St. Paul United Methodist, and served St. Paul in a number of leadership roles throughout his membership. Whatever was needed, Charles heeded the call, serving as Chair of the Administrative Board, Head of the Pastor Parrish Committee, and Head of the Finance Committee, among others. By far, his most demanding role was Chair of the Building Committee. In this capacity, Charles worked tirelessly in the late 1970’s and 1980’s to oversee the relocation, financing, and construction of the new church building, fulfilling the vision of creating a beautiful state-of-the-art facility. The large cross extending down the front of the sanctuary’s interior was donated in his honor. Charles truly enjoyed the fellowship of his Sunday School class, the Joy Group, and the Methodist Men group. His beloved St. Paul Choir held a very special place in his heart. Charles was blessed with a beautiful mellow bass voice. For over six decades, he rarely missed a Wednesday night choir practice, resulting in over 60 years of beautiful weekly anthems each Sunday as well as annual Christmas and Easter productions.
Charles decided to give golf a try at the age of 40 and was quickly hooked for life, continuing to play in some capacity even up until age 95. Throughout his 55 years of playing golf, he made several holes-in-one. Charles was a long-time member of Birchwood Country Club, joining in the mid-1960’s, and playing golf there regularly. After retiring, he enjoyed playing several times each week with a group of Seniors at both Birchwood and Northgreen Golf Club. Some of his favorite memories on the golf course included playing with his family and friends at North Shore Country Club near North Topsail Beach.
Charles is survived by his daughters, Nancy Proctor and husband, Russell, of Rocky Mount and Julie Crocker and husband, Tommy, of Cary; his grandchildren whom he adored, Amanda Proctor Mullen and husband, Kai, of Raleigh, Lee Proctor and wife, Katy, of Raleigh, and Spencer Crocker and McKenzie Crocker of Cary; his great-grandchildren Blair Mullen, Lucy Mullen, and Mary Kate Proctor; his brother, Larry Milford Ward and wife, Lynn, of Charlotte; and many nieces and nephews. Charles was also close to his golf and Saturday breakfast friends Jim Viverette and Scoop and Susie Jackson as well as his long-time friends Wayne Webb and Irene Moody.
The family would like to thank his devoted caregivers Bernetta Stokes, Estelle Cooper, Doretha Davis, and Rosetta Williams. (They were truly “Charlie’s angels”).
A Graveside Service will be held on Friday, May 5, 2023, at 1:00 PM at Rocky Mount Memorial Park, followed by a celebration of Charles’s life at 2:00 PM at St. Paul United Methodist Church, 1217 Bethlehem Road, Rocky Mount, NC 27803. A reception with the family will be held at Benvenue Country Club at 3:30 PM.
In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to St. Paul United Methodist Church, 1217 Bethlehem Road, Rocky Mount, NC 27803.
Arrangements entrusted to Wheeler & Woodlief Funeral Home & Cremation Services, 1130 N. Winstead Avenue, Rocky Mount, NC 27804. You may share memories and condolences with the family by visiting www.wheelerwoodlief.com.
Charles was a very good man, and a very special friend of mine. We will miss his kind heart and spirit. He was also a good golfer friend.
Mr.Ward was my first employer,I worked for him after school and on Saturday’s when it was on Washington st in 1969 and then to the Main st location.He was a fine man .RIP Charlie
What a great man. He always had a smile on his face even in his later years. RIP Charlie Ward ❤️❤️
Lifting prayers
Always a gentleman, always a smile.
He was a great man and neighbor!
Mr. Charlie Ward was a wonderful person! Missed seeing him in the later years! I know he is singing in Heaven’s choir! RIP
What a gentleman! 🙏
Charles Ward was a very special man. He was positive and had a smile always. He will be missed by everyone that knew him.
💙🙏❤️
One fine and well loved Man. I’m sorry Nancy W Proctor !
He was the sweetest man! He was always willing to take a hug at Birchwood on the golf course. Sending hugs and prayers for your loss.
Charlie will be missed by many, we bought all our Maytag appliances from him till he closed. Prayers for family
Prayers.
So sorry for your loss.
Sending love to you and your family, Nancy. I know the last months have been hard. Lifting prayers.
So sorry!
So very sorry Ward family… he surely led a very blessed and long life ❤️🙏
So sorry for your loss – many prayers!
He was a great man that loved his family dearly!!! He will be missed!!
So sorry to hear this!
I loved Charles and Nell. Wonderful family.
Love and prayers❤️
He and Nell were well known and very well respected. Enjoyed doing business with them.
He was just the nicest man you could ever know. Always smiling. Sending condolences and much love to his sweet family!
He was a kind and gentle man. Sorry for your loss.
He certainly was a Rocky Mount Icon!!!
Thoughts and prayers of comfort for the families of this fine man. He was a true gentleman. 🛐✝️🙏❤️
He was definitely of the good guys! He will be missed.
He was a kind man.
Sorry for your loss Julie
What a great man!
Bought many appliance parts from him! Nice guy!
I always enjoyed going to the store for appliances. They have helped me so much. He was the one who told me if I would put balled up newspaper in any appliance I was storing, it would not smell when you open them, especially a freezer or refrigerator. They will always be special to our family. I know he is happy to be with Nell and Charlotte again. What a grand reunion they must be having. Our prayers are with you and your families during this very difficult time. He will certainly be missed as Nell and Charlotte have been missed too. God bless each of you.
Mr. Ward, thank you for your service too.
Mr Ward was a very special man, loved our chats at church and all he did for St Paul. He will be missed, so sorry for the loss of your dad
For my big brother!
Mr. Ward was truly a Southern Gentleman. He was always smiling and had kind words to say. My condolences to Julie, Nancy and their families. He will be missed by many. He was greeted by Mrs. Ward and Charley and what a reunion that must have been.
Great memories of Mr. Ward. He was always happy to help you when you entered Wards Appliance. My sincere condolences to the family.
Leah s. Vines