ROCKY MOUNT - Papa John went home on Friday, May 24, 2019. John Bryan Stilley was born in Nash County, NC on January 15, 1925 to the late Henry Bryan Stilley and Rosa Hodges Stilley. He was also preceded in death by his wife, Margie Rae Lewis Stilley; and sisters, Grace S. Jackson and Amanda S. Gilikin.
John was a lifelong resident of Rocky Mount. He graduated from Rocky Mount High School and East Carolina Teachers College. During World War II, he left home at the age of 18 to serve in the U.S. Navy as a Gunners Mate and Coxswain aboard the LCI(G)-726, seeing combat throughout the Solomon Islands and the Philippines. He had foxhole time on Guadalcanal and was in the first wave to hit the beaches at Peleliu. He was awarded a commendation for bravery and heroism after diving into flaming waters at Vella Lavella to rescue his fellow sailors. Upon his return home from the war, he worked as a fireman on a coal fired steam locomotive before finishing high school and attending college. John married Margie Rae Lewis on March 18, 1951 and over their 61 years together, they raised three children, seven grandchildren, and many others. In 1960, he began work at Commercial Credit Corporation and for the next forty years, he worked in banking and financial services. He was recruited by Peoples Bank and Trust Company to build its consumer banking division and retired from there in 1987 as senior vice president. John enjoyed lifelong memberships in the Roanoke & Tar River Gun Club, the US Power Squadron, the ECTC Club, Rocky Mount Civitan Club, Corinthian Lodge No. 230, A.F. & A.M., the Rocky Mount Shrine Club, and the Elks Lodge. He was active in the North Carolina Bankers Association and the Consumer Bankers Association. Even though John had a successful business career, he will be remembered as an outstanding father, grandfather, and devoted husband. He shared his love of hunting and fishing with his grandchildren and taught them respect for all people and love of country. John was happiest at Harkers Island and at the helm of his boat, the High Cotton.
He is survived by his daughter and son-in-law, Dale S. and William A. Pully of Raleigh, his daughter and son-in-law, Nancy S. and Stanley M. Lambert of Richmond, VA and his son and daughter-in-law, John Bryan Stilley, Jr. and Debbie M. Stilley of Enfield; grandchildren, William A. Pully, II (Gretchen) of Rocky Mount, James A. Pully (Meredith) of Raleigh, Robert D. Pully of Raleigh, Taylor M. Lambert of Richmond, VA, Peyton M. Lambert of Norfolk, VA, John Bryan Stilley, III (Sterling) of Raleigh, Kaitlyn S. Floyd (Alex) of Raleigh, and by his sister, Corrine S. Livesay and many nieces, nephews, and friends.
A Celebration of John's Life will be held on Tuesday, May 28, 2019 at 2:00 PM at St. Andrews Episcopal Church, 301 S. Circle Drive, Rocky Mount, NC 27804 with Father George Greer officiating. Immediately following the service, the family will receive friends at Benvenue Country Club, 100 Southern Blvd., Rocky Mount, NC 27804.
The Family would like to thank Hospice and Palliative Care of Nash General; Dr. Douglas Boyette, RN Letisha Richardson, and staff. The family extends a special thank you to Papa John's longtime caregiver and friend, Doretha Davis.
In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to St. Andrew's Episcopal Church, 301 South Circle Drive, Rocky Mount, NC 27804, or to Hospice and Palliative Care of Nash General, 2460 Curtis Ellis Drive, Rocky Mount, NC 27804.
Arrangements entrusted to Wheeler & Woodlief Funeral Home & Cremation Services, 1130 N. Winstead Avenue, Rocky Mount, NC 27804. You may share memories and condolences with the family by visiting www.wheelerwoodlief.com.
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St. Andrew's Episcopal Church
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Rocky Mount, NC 27804
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Tuesday 5/28, 2:00 pm - 3:00 pm
A Celebration of John's Life will be held on Tuesday, May 28, 2019 at 2:00 PM at St. Andrews Episcopal Church, 301 S. Circle Drive, Rocky Mount, NC 27804 with Father George Greer officiating.
Please accept our deepest condolences for your family’s loss.
Hey Stan and Nancy – So sorry to hear about the passing of your beloved father. I am in awe of him reading his lifelong accomplishments and awards. He certainly made his mark on this world in an exceptional way. Lucky you to have shared in his incredible 90 years on this earth, Hugs and love to you as you celebrate his life and legacy…. Scott & Laurie Booth.
Papa John was a special man. I have so many good memories of visiting through the years with him and his wife Margie, a dear friend of mine, in their home. With John’s dry wit and Margie’s lighthearted persona, I always came away with a smile on my face and the feeling that we had solved all the world’s problems! RIP, Papa John. I will think of you often and will miss seeing you, as I have in recent years, sitting in McDonald’s enjoying your favorite fish sandwich.
I am so very sorry to hear this. Papa John & Miss Margie were a big part of my parents’ lives. And he was like everybody’s grandfather. Will forever remember his love of Harkers Island. I can picture him sitting in the rocking chair at Owen’sJohn T’s little piece of heaven there. God bless you, Dale, Nancy and your entire family. Such a wise, genuine and widely loved man. My heart and prayers are with you all.❤️
To my dear friends, My deepest sympathy for your loss. Papa John was very special and I cherish the memories I have of him . You are all in my prayers. Love to all
Our thoughts and prayer are with you all at this time.
As a volunteer minister I read obituary columns on a regular basis. No words however kindly meant, can sooth your pain away. Hoping that the words in; Psalms 99 bring peace and comfort to you and your family in this difficult time, knowing that all help comes from God even in our darkest days. Please accept my condolence
We will miss John B’s wisdom and wit at Big Field. I always enjoyed a moment with him. Our thoughts are with the family, with the Pulley’s, and all the family. Jack B Taylor
My deep deep condolences to the Stilley family and friends May you reflect on the precious memories that you have made with your loved one. Losing a loved one can cause so so much sadness and pain of heart. So, I would like to share what helped us when our precious daughter died and later when my precious husband fell asleep in death due to cancer. I appreciated the calls and visits from people from all over. But I also, recall just sitting down and reading different Scriptures and meditating on them. It was so comforting to read that God cares for us personally… (1Peter 56, 7). Yes, He cares, He sees our pain. And, He Jehovah God will in His due time do away with All sicknesses & death (Isaiah 3324 & Isaiah 258). He is indeed a God of comfort. Oh, wow He promises the hope of seeing our precious loved ones again (John 528, 29) and says where (Psalms 3711). He always keeps His word. I hope that these few Scriptures were of some comfort to you as they were to me.
Dale and Nancy, I was so so sorry to read about your dad’s passing. I want you know I would have come to his service and the family gathering if I weren’t out of town at the time. He was a heck of a fine man! My sincerest and deepest sympathy to you and your family.
Papa John was the finest example of the Greatest Generation as described by Tom Brokaw. A quiet man who always had things under control. He took it to the enemy and came home and had a wonderful rich life. As a fellow Navy Veteran, John B. Stilley was my hero. I will miss you Papa John.
Our thoughts & prayers are with you!! May God be with you in your time of need!!