ROCKY MOUNT – Brandon "Jay" Nelms, age 23, passed away on Thursday, January 4, 2024. He was born in Nash County, NC on May 10, 2000.
Jay was a former student of Northern Nash High School and worked for Dan Baker Landscaping for several years. He enjoyed fishing, riding horses, and hanging out with family and friends. Jay loved spending summers with his cousins playing video games, swimming and eating his aunt Renee’s cooking. His favorite thing to do was to hang out with his “brother” Stavien, playing Spades and eating Momma Roslyn’s famous Sunday dinners. A loving son, brother, grandson, nephew, cousin, uncle, and great friend to many, Jay will be dearly missed and never forgotten.
Jay is survived by his mother, Kory Lynn Nelms; his father, Adam Todd Shaw; his brother, David Richard Nelms; uncle to Bentley Kole Nelms-Ferrell; his sister, Ava Elizabeth Shaw; his maternal grandparents, Danny Richard "Pete" Nelms and Kathy Lynn Nelms; his aunt, Renee & Steve Jewell; his cousins, Ryan his uncle, David and Laura Nelms; his cousins, Lily & Liam Nelms; his “brother” and lifelong best friend, Stavien McNair; his Momma Roslyn; and other extended family members and close friends.
A Special Gathering of Family and Friends to remember Jay’s life will be held on Sunday, January 14, 2024, from 3:00 PM to 5:00 PM at Wheeler & Woodlief Funeral Home and Cremation Services, 1130 N. Winstead Ave., Rocky Mount, NC 27804.
Arrangements entrusted to Wheeler & Woodlief Funeral Home & Cremation Services, 1130 N. Winstead Avenue, Rocky Mount, NC 27804. You may share memories and condolences with the family by visiting www.wheelerwoodlief.com.
Sue and Jim Toffton
It was such a honor to have loved Jay && for him to been apart of my life💕.I’ve known him since elementary school but it wasn’t until we graduated that our relationship got close && that he became closer to me than some of my real family members.I will never forget the time I first saw him since we had graduated & he wanted some Bo rounds from bojangles so I left work and came to his house to bring them. When I got there he came out with no shoes on and hopped in my car && it seemed like those minutes felt like hours talking to him.We caught up laughed && that started our unique && romantic relationship/ friendship.Jay was so sure I was his wife, but I never saw what he saw in me but I guess it was the same on my end he didn’t see what I saw in him. Jay will always hold a special place in my heart because he was my heart.I will never forget him or his never failing Good Morning text or I love you’s or me and you forever’s.Praying for his family && friends in this time bereavement .
Much love Ayshia Palmer
Hope this brightens your day the way Jay brightened my life
Kory,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. You are in my prayers.
Vickie Ezzell Hall
Milton and I am so sorry for your loss.
In loving sympathy