WHITAKERS - Louis Norman Gay, Jr., age 95, passed away on Wednesday, November 7, 2018. Born in Edgecombe County, NC on June 21, 1923, he was the son of the late Louis Norman Gay, Sr. and Edna Earl Bradley Gay. He is also predeceased by his beloved wife, Minnie Jo Fisher Gay of 67 years; daughter, Edna Virginia “Ginger” Gay; sisters, Gladys G. Morris and Louise G. Peacock.
Norman was the oldest child and a great brother to his younger siblings. They loved to sing together as they did their chores on the farm. After graduating from high school, he was drafted into the Army, where he served as a Drop Master assigned to the 490th Quarter Master Depot and attached to the 101st Air Bourne Division during WWII supplying airborne troops behind enemy lines. While performing his duty on September 18, 1944, SGT Gay was shot in the left arm and shoulder. He refused medical attention and courageously remained at his station. Arriving over the designated area, he manipulated the release with only the use of his right hand, dropping the vitally needed supplies. Not until then, did he allow his wounds to be treated. The fortitude and devotion to duty displayed by SGT Gay reflect the highest credit upon himself and the Armed Forces of the United States. As a result of his efforts and gallantry, he was awarded the Silver Star and Purple Heart. He also was awarded the Air Medal; Army Good Conduct Medal; and the European-African-Middle Eastern Campaign Medal with 5 Bronze Stars. During his tour of duty, SGT Gay was involved in the Western Front which included the Normandy D-Day Invasion, or Operation Overlord, the Northern France Campaign, the Rhineland Campaign which included the Rhineland Offensive, the Ardennes-Alsace Campaign which included the Siege of Bastogne, the Battle of the Bulge, and Holland-Operation Market Garden, as well as to include the Central Europe Campaign.
Norman met the love of his life in 1945 after the war, when he was asked to speak at the Whitakers High School French class. They were married December 31, 1947. Norman was the manager at Low's Appliance Store on Main Street in Rocky Mount for over 40 years. He was a family man, and extremely proud of his children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren. He loved nothing better then spending time with them. He served the Lord at Gethsemane Baptist Church for over 70 years teaching Sunday School, serving as a Deacon and singing in the Choir.
Norman leaves behind to cherish his memory, his daughter, June G. Carlisle and her husband, Bobby, of Conetoe; son, Louis Norman Gay, III and his wife, Tracie, of Red Oak. He is also survived by her grandchildren, Amy Carlisle Dixon and husband, Brian; Ashley Benjamin Carlisle, III; Jesse Louis Gay and Travis Williamson Gay; and great-grandchildren, Cooper Lee Dixon and Austin Carlisle Dixon, brother, Aaron G. Gay and his wife, Emily of Rocky Mount. He also leaves behind a special niece, Lynda S. Shepard and her husband Dan and nephew, Kent Gay.
A Funeral Service will be held on Saturday, November 10, 2018 at 1:00 PM in the Chapel of Wheeler and Woodlief Funeral Home & Cremation Services with Pastor Dan Shepard officiating. Burial will follow the service at White Oak Cemetery in Whitakers. The family will receive friends and relatives Friday, November 9, 2018 from 6:00 PM to 8:00 PM at Wheeler and Woodlief Funeral Home & Cremation Services.
In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to Gethsemane Baptist Church Benevolent Fund, P. O. Box 715, Whitakers, NC 27891or the Disabled Vets, 1020 19th Street, NW, Suite 475, Washington, DC 20036.
Arrangements entrusted to Wheeler and Woodlief Funeral Home & Cremation Services, 1130 N. Winstead Avenue, Rocky Mount, NC 27804. You may share memories and condolences with the family by visiting www. wheelerwoodlief.com.
Visitation
Wheeler & Woodlief Funeral Home & Cremation Services
1130 N. Winstead Ave.
Rocky Mount, NC 27804
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Friday 11/9, 6:00 pm - 8:00 pm
The Family will receive friends and relatives Friday, November 9, 2018 from 6:00 PM to 8:00 PM at Wheeler and Woodlief Funeral Home & Cremation Services.
Service
Chapel of Wheeler & Woodlief Funeral Home
1130 N. Winstead Avenue
Rocky Mount, NC 27804
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Saturday 11/10, 1:00 pm - 2:00 pm
A Funeral Service will be held on Saturday, November 10, 2018 at 1:00 PM in the Chapel of Wheeler and Woodlief Funeral Home & Cremation Services with Pastor Dan Shepard officiating.
Cemetery
White Oak Cemetery
20124 Hwy 33 NW
Whitakers, NC 27891
Saturday 11/10, 2:15 pm - 3:00 pm
Burial will follow the service at White Oak Cemetery in Whitakers.
Please accept our deepest condolences for your family’s loss.
I remember Norman when he worked at Lowe’s Appliance. My Mama bought her appliances there and so did I. This was a good person. RIP.
In memory of Louis Norman Gay, Jr., Janice Raynor Hale lit a candle
June and family I am very sorry for your loss. May God comfort as only he can.
I was blessed to have grown up with Norman and Minnie Jo. Two very special people.
In memory of Louis Norman Gay, Jr., Candee Weaver Davis lit a candle
God,bless very humble gentleman and someone people looked up for a,smile and genuine friendship.God bless his family. Minnie is happy again they are together in God’s house.
Norman will be missed by many. He was a man that people to could look up to. He always had a smile for everyone. Rest in Pace.
So sorry to hear of Norman’s passing. Mom often talked of him. I fondly remember our visits to Uncle Norman’s. Condolences from the Hopewell Phelps’ and Harris’. Chip and Kathy Phelps, Kent Phelps, Joyce Harris and Jean Kay Harris.
In memory of Louis Norman Gay, Jr., Frances Bellamy lit a candle
So sorry for your loss
There has been a void at Gethsemane Baptist Church since the passing of Ginger and Minnie Jo. It was deepened when Norman went to live at the Albemarle in Tarboro and could no longer be with us. I offer my sincere condolences to this family.
Our thoughts and prayers are with your family during these difficult times, Jason & Tara Irvin
We are so sorry to hear of Mr Gay’s passing. He was such a good man. We thought the world of him. Our thoughts and prayers go out to the family during this sad time. Bob & Jan Lane
The Elkins family sends their sincerest condolences to all Mr. Gay’s family. May God’s comfort prove to be sufficient and more then enough for you doing this time.
I have so many wonderful memories of days spent in the home of this family. Love all of you!
So sorry June. Praying for you & family
So sorry for your loss. Your entire family is in my prayers.
I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your father! My prayers are with you and your family!
A very special person, one of a kind. A role model for me growing up. My deepest sympathy for the family.
In memory of Louis Norman Gay, Jr., Rebecca Henry lit a candle
So many memories of Mr. Norman and his smile and humor. He was truly a man of his word, hard worker and a great friend to many. He will truly be missed by all who had the honor of knowing him. We will be praying for all family as you heal from this void in your family. Remember the good memories and you will always keep him in your heart. We were out of town and unable to make the service but had your in our prayers and thoughts. Love you all! Debbie & Freddie Blackmon
My deepest condolences to the family and friends. Losing a loved one can be very painful, however the strength that we receive from God’s word at 2 Cor 13-4 The God of all comfort and tender mercies comforts us all in all our trail. As you mourn the loss of your loved ones never fear that you are alone, allow the God’s words from the bible bring you peace and guidance. John 5;28-29; Acts 2415; Rev 20 12-13.
I am deeply sorry for the loss of your dear loved one. What a full & rich life Mr Gay lived! May precious memories comfort your mourning hearts. Please also find comfort & strength remembering that God promises us that we can reunite with our loved ones in the near future…on the peaceful, paradise earth God intended for mankind. An exciting time when Mr Gay will wake up to enjoy doing all the things that bring him joy again. John 1111-44; Revelation 213, 4; Psalms 3710, 11, 29. JW.ORG
June, So sorry to hear about your Dad. Thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. God Bless.
My sincere condolences to the family. May the God of all comfort give you the comfort you need to endure this difficult time and the days ahead (2 Corinthians 13,4)