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Grace Baker Minor

June 29, 1935 ~ October 24, 2013

Grace Baker Minor, age 78, passed away peacefully under Hospice Care at home on Thursday, October 24, surrounded by her family and loved ones. A Memorial Service will be held on Saturday, October 26 at 3:00 p.m. at Lakeside Baptist Church in Rocky Mount, NC with a reception immediately following at Benvenue Country Club. Grace was born June 29, 1935 in Washington, DC to the late Marjorie Williamson and Harry Kenneth Baker. Her father was a decorated World War II veteran and US diplomat. Her late grandparents were Grace Pierce and Bailey Finley Williamson of Raleigh, NC. Grace grew up in Chevy Chase, Maryland outside of Washington, DC. She attended Bethesda-Chevy Chase High School and then studied early childhood education at the University of Maryland, where she met her husband, Bob. As a girl, Grace spent many happy summers with her grandparents at their home in Florida where her love of nature and classical music began. After moving to Rocky Mount, she pursued her passion for helping children, serving as Preschool Teacher and Director for 23 years at Englewood United Methodist Church and Lakeside Baptist Church. For many years she wrote an advice column for the Rocky Mount Evening Telegram newspaper, “Loving and Living with the Preschool Child.” Following her teaching career, she was active for more than a decade as the Hope Counselor in Pediatrics at Nash General Hospital, where she eased the fears and anxieties of many sick children and comforted their parents. Grace was the family matriarch and hostess. Whether welcoming family for summers on the Outer Banks or making sure there were no empty places at her table during holidays, her home was always a warm and welcoming place for everyone. She was interested in every human being and a friend to all, regardless of race, creed or color. She knew how to make each person feel like the most important person in the room. Grace will be remembered for her kindness and empathy, her compassion, her laughter, and her love of family and friends from around the world. She was passionate about her faith, nature and especially cats and Canada Geese, children and childhood development, and helping the sick and suffering. She is survived by her sister, Betsy Baker Ellis and husband, William Leigh Ellis of Bronxville, NY; her brother-in-law, John Deviny Carrico and his wife, Margriet Vander Heyden; her son, Robert Lloyd Minor, Jr. and his wife, Sandra Jane McCurdy-Minor of Belvidere, IL; her son, Richard Gabriel Minor and wife Linda Trees Minor of Chapel Hill, NC; and her daughter Wendy Minor Graham and her husband, Geoffrey Dyer Graham of Atlanta, Georgia; nine grandchildren, Sarah, Elizabeth, Ryan, Brandon, George, William, James, Alexander and Rhea; many nieces and nephews; her dear and loyal friend, Shirley Ann Lucas; and her two white cats Jack and Jill. She was preceded in death by her husband of 56 years, Robert Lloyd (Bob) Minor, her son Kenneth Embrey Minor, and her sister, Alice Baker Carrico. In lieu of flowers, memorials are suggested to the Boys Girls Clubs of Nash/Edgecombe Counties, P.O, Box 1622, 301 South Church Street, Rocky Mount, NC 27802. Arrangements entrusted to Wheeler and Woodlief Funeral Home, 1130 North Winstead Avenue, Rocky Mount, NC 27804. You may share memories and condolences with the family by visiting www.wheelerwoodlief.com. Visitation Location Not Available Saturday 10/26, 4:00 pm Service Lakeside Baptist Church 1501 Sunset Avenue Rocky Mount, NC 27804 ID ) ); ?>"> --> 252-446-0126 --> | Saturday 10/26, 3:00 pm

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  1. So sad to hear about this! I saw Grace only a few times, mostly related to my sister Linda and Rick’s wedding. She was a very gracious host. After they got married, I sent the Minors Christmas cards like I send most people and then I stopped one year and she told Linda that she really loved my cards and letters. I was surprised she even knew who I was! So I continued sending them up through last year. I will miss her this year when I send them out again. Sending prayers and condolences to the family. Heli Darlington

  2. TO ROBERT, ROBBIE, AND WENDY- WORDS ELUDE ME AT THIS MOMENT. ALL I CAN SAY, IS THAT WE HAD A GREAT CUB SCOUT TROOP ON WELLINGTON CT IN 1968. ROBERT, I WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER YOUR LOVE FOR BIKE RIDING, ROBBIE ,YOUR SENSE OF HUMOR AND INTELLIGENCE, AND WENDY- YOU WERE IN A STROLLER BEING TAKING CARE OF BY THE LATE SUE GAY, WR’S SISTER, WHO WAS ALSO IN OUR TROOP ALONG WITH BILLY HOBBS. THAT WAS SO LONG AGO, BUT YET I STILL HAVE FOND MEMORIES OF YOUR WONDERFUL, BLESSED MOTHER. I GRADUATED FROM UNC, 1985 WITH 2 BACHELORS DEGREE IN FRENCHENGLISH. TAUGHT SCHOOL FOR A WHILE, THEN BECAME AN INTERNATIONAL FLIGHT ATTENDANT LIVING IN MIAMI & KEY WEST FOR OVER 20 YRS. TURN 52 THIS NOV. YOUR MOTHER AND I WERE VERY CLOSE ALL THROUGH THOSE MANY YEARS. SHE WAS MY MENTOR IN MANY WAYS. I WILL MISS HER GREATLY, BUT GOD NEEDED SOMEONE SPECIAL IN HEAVEN AND HE CHOSE YOUR BELOVED MOM.. I AM IN RMT RIGHT NOW FOR A SHORT WHILE, BUT LEAVING FOR PHOENIX, AZ SOON… ROBERT, A MD CARDIOLOGISTSURGEON, ROBBIE, A LAWYER LIKE YOUR DAD, AND WENDY, I BELEIVE THE LAST TIME YOUR MOM AND I SPOKE FROM FLORIDA, YOU WERE LIVING IN ATLANTA DOING SOMETHING WITH INTERIOR DECORATINGDESIGNARCHITECTURE ROBBIE, WERE WERE IN THE SAME TRROP TOGETHER. I STILL HAVE MY RACE CAR THAT I WON 1ST PRIZE WITH. WISHING YOU ALL THE BEST ALWAYS, ORGINAL CUB SCOUT 1968- WITH YOUR MOM AS DEN MOTHER.. SHE WAS SUCH A GREAT, WONDERFUL PERSON!! NOW SHE HAS EARNED HER HEAVENLY WINGS FOR ALL THE LIVES SHE TOUCHED. GOD BLESS YOU ALL, .. JOHN S. SUTTON

  3. Grace was amazing. My daughter Linda Trees and Rick were getting married in Rocky Mount in October. Everything was going as planned. BUT… in the Gulf there was a hurricane whirling around. It was coming up the East Coast and getting bigger and bigger. We watched and worried. A day before the wedding was to take place the hurricane hit. I was in a hotel waiting for my son and his family to come from Louisiana. (They made it) Others, from Virginia and Pennsylvania. 95 was cut off. Power off. Wedding canceled. Grace and Bob had all who made it down to their house. No electricity. Emptied the freezer and had a barbecue for worried scared guests. All had a great time and made it home after the storm. Grace and Bob were truly amazing. They will be so missed by thier loving family and friends. Annabelle Wright

  4. It was so sad to hear the news of the loss of Grace. I remember her as a very warm, gracious woman that was very hospitable. The couple of times I spent with her it was apparent she was a woman of great qualities and abilities. She knew how to make people feel comfortable and at ease. She was full of compassion, had a great sense of humor and was a lover of life. My deepest condolences to the family. Phoebe Chidester

  5. Grace was a high school classmate of mine, and we kept in touch through the years. She was always cheery, interested in others, and a gracious hostess. She was hostess for half a dozen of us girls from the class of ’53 at BCC High School have a lot of silly fun as we celebrated our 60th birthdays in a long October weekend at Grace and Bob’s Nags Head retreat. She got Halloween noise makers for us, rented a movie for us (about Thomas Jefferson and Sally Hemings), got (removable) tattoos for us to transfer to ankles or more provocative places and surprise our husbands, took us to the dunes for dune hang-gliding, and made creamed chipped beef on toast for our lunch. A real Southern sweetie! I will miss her and her devoted husband, Bob.

  6. Grace was my first date! We went to see The Jolson Story at the Hiser Theater in Bethesda, MD. Of course my father took us and picked us up. We were both in the class of 1953, Bethesda-Chevy Chase H.S. She and Bob were regular attendees at our class reunions, not only in Bethesda but also in Las Vegas. Grace was a beautiful lady and I, among others, will miss her at future gatherings. Nord (John) Nordlinger Ann Arbor, MI

  7. I am sorry for your loss, please accept my heartfelt sympathy. While you are preparing to lay your loved one to rest, to sleep for a little while in death(John 1111), I hope you will find comfort in knowing that soon Jesus’ promise of the resurrection will be fulfilled; when he will awaken those who are sleeping in death, restoring them back to life, to live eternally on the Paradise earth.-John 528,28; Luke 2343. Until that blessed promise is fulfilled; may Jehovah God soothe your grieving hearts now and grant you peace and comfort.during this time of sorrow.-Matthew54.

  8. I just found out about Grace’s passing. Mrs. Minor was my preschool teacher. I will always remember her as an extremely kind, caring, & giving person. I am now in my 30s, married with a family, but she still sent me little notes, cards, & gifts letting me know she was thinking of me. She gave me a beautifully hand carved little cat statue when she found out about my cat passing suddenly a couple of years ago. I will always think of her when I see it. 3


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