ROCKY MOUNT – Dr. Jacob Reid Parrott, Jr. (“Reid”), age 85, passed away peacefully in his sleep on Sunday, April 21, 2024. Born in Craven County, NC August 21, 1938, to his beloved parents, Jacob Reid Parrott, Sr. and Nola Benton Parrott, he was also preceded in death by the love of his life, his wife, Margaret Allen Parrott, and his beloved sister-in-law, Cotten Skinner Parrott.
Reid is survived by his sons, Jacob Reid Parrott, III (husband Parker Davis) of Raleigh, NC and Benjamin Allen Parrott of Greenville, NC. He is also survived by his two cherished grandchildren, Benjamin Allen Parrott, Jr. and Dorsey Elizabeth Parrott of Greenville, NC; his brothers, Donald Benton Parrott (wife Cathy) of Gastonia, NC, and James Hubert Parrott (wife Susan) of Morehead City, NC; and several beloved nieces and nephews. He is also survived by numerous cousins and lifelong friends, especially Coach George Whitfield. Reid loved being a father to his sons, of whom he was especially proud, and loved being “Pepa” to his grandchildren. He loved them all tremendously and knew Ben and Dorsey were destined for great things.
Reid lived a joyfully full life, touching people’s lives wherever he went. So much of his life focused on education. After graduating from Grainger High School in Kinston, NC, Reid earned his Bachelor of Science in Social Studies in 1960 from East Carolina University and then began his educational career as a teacher in the Wayne County, Lenoir County and Kinston City School Systems. In 1962, he graduated again from East Carolina University with a Master of Arts in Education and a minor in History. His blood ran Pirate purple, and he was a lifelong friend of East Carolina University.
Reid quickly moved up from a social studies teacher to an assistant principal and served in that capacity until 1966 when he joined the North Carolina Community College System at Lenoir Community College where he served as Director of Adult Basic Education for a three-county area. He was later promoted to Director of Evening Programs and then to Dean of Continuing Education, a position he held until 1969.
In 1971, he earned his Doctorate in Adult and Community College Education from North Carolina State University. Reid joined the NC Department of Community Colleges as a State-Federal Relations Coordinator where he identified state, federal and private funds for expansion initiatives. He was appointed Vice President for Institutional Services in 1972. In addition to his institutional responsibilities, he was assigned to work with the legislature on community college budget requests. In 1975, he was named Senior Vice President for Educational Programs with additional responsibilities of serving as departmental liaison between the State Board of Education and the Board of Governors of the University of North Carolina System.
At the NC Department of Community College, Reid helped develop and implement curriculum standards that provided quality control throughout the system’s 58 colleges. This effort was aimed at ensuring the transfer of credits to other community colleges as well as senior colleges and universities. Also, among his many accomplishments at the state level was his role in the attainment of state and regional accreditation by all of the institutions. Advancements were made in achieving the goal of excellence in educational programs and comprehensive learning opportunities for all citizens served by the system’s 58 schools.
During this period of growth, Reid also saw services to new and expanding industries flourish. Efforts to eliminate illiteracy among the adult population were expanded, enrollment growth in the system grew from some 300,000 to one-half million students, state appropriations more than doubled for current operations, and five technical institutes were converted to community colleges with an addition of four institutions to the existing fifty-four. The realization of permanent campuses for the remaining one-third of the colleges in the system was achieved with his lobbying efforts during 1971 to 1977.
After nine years at the state level, Reid served as a special consultant to the president of Halifax Community College as a representative of the NC Department of Community Colleges. During this time, Nash Community College was conducting a presidential search. Reid was selected as the second president of Nash Technical Institute in Rocky Mount. Upon joining the college in 1980, he brought a strong background and wealth of experience in public and collegiate education to his presidency. Reid’s tenure of twenty years with the college ushered in a period of growth in number of students served, program offerings, and physical facilities. His vision and leadership enabled the college to assume a prominent educational position in the Nash/Rocky Mount areas and in the North Carolina community College System transitioning from a technical institute to a comprehensive community college. Reid loved Nash Community College and constantly recruited new students to the College up until his death.
While President, Reid served as a member of a development team which landed Consolidated Diesel Company, the largest new industry at that time to locate in eastern North Carolina and largest to locate in North Carolina. Nash Community College’s new industry training program was one of the primary reasons the company chose Nash County over 140 other communities nationwide. During his tenure, he secured the construction of the Betsy B. Currin Child Development Center and the significant Allen H. and Winnie E. Brown Auditorium.
Reid was awarded the 2008 Nash Community College President’s Cup, the highest and most prestigious award given each year to someone affiliated with Nash Community College who has truly made an indelible mark on the institution. Upon Reid’s retirement in 1999 to recognize his distinguished educational career and service, the NCC Board of Trustees bestowed the title of President Emeritus to him to honor his outstanding contributions to the college. Known for his ease at the podium, Reid shared his wit and wisdom as the commencement speaker with numerous North Carolina Community Colleges.
Reid was also honored in 1990 as the recipient of the North Carolina State University Department of Adult and Community College Education I. E. Ready Distinguished Alumnus Award in recognition of his exemplary leadership and excellence in community college education. In 1989, the Leadership 2000 Institute named him as one of 12 outstanding community college presidents in North Carolina. He was past president of the North Carolina Association of Colleges and Universities. In 2015, Reid received North Carolina’s most prestigious award, the Order of the Long Leaf Pine. The following year, he was inducted into the Twin County Hall of Fame (Nash and Edgecombe counties), which honors living and since deceased people who have had a large, positive impact on the region.
Among the many civic organizations he was involved, Reid served as 2007-2008 President of the Nash Community College Foundation Board of Directors. He was an active member of the Rocky Mount Kiwanis Club and the First United Methodist Church in Rocky Mount. Reid served since 1988 on the Boy Scouts of America Executive Committee – East Carolina Council. In 2004, he received the Boy Scouts of America Distinguished Citizen Award for the Tar River Council. In 2010, he received the Distinguished Service Award from the East Carolina University Alumni Association.
Reid loved all things related to nature and the outdoors. He loved feeding the birds, planting tomatoes and peppers, and simply piddling in the yard while chewing his favorite cigar. Reid and Margaret had wonderful memories of their times at their cottage on Live Oak Cove on the Bogue Sound. They enjoyed boat rides at sunset, as well as special times around the dinner table with family and friends. They also enjoyed the holiday reunion at the Parrott Farm in Dover, NC, as traditions begun by Reid’s father were continued by Reid and his brothers, Donald and Hubert. Reid loved history, old cowboy movies, crossword puzzles and the Jumble, and books. He was a voracious reader of all genres. Reid had a zest for life and laughter, and was always ready with a funny story, a sarcastic comment or a sweet compliment. He loved his time growing up in Kinston, where his high school buddies called him “Silas”, his time in Raleigh, professionally and personally, but his true passion was Rocky Mount, Nash County and Nash Community College. He loved his outings to the Farmer’s Market on Saturdays, Wednesday nights with the boys at Bernie’s, baseball trips with friends and varied musical events with his pals. An active member and former trustee of First United Methodist Church, he greatly enjoyed Sunday worship services. After Margaret’s death in 2017, Reid stayed in Rocky Mount for a few years, but decided to move to the Cypress Glen Retirement Community in Greenville, NC in 2021 where he flourished. Reid had numerous friends at Cypress Glen and soon made many more. He was fondly known as the “Mayor of the Glen” or the “Song of the Glen” as he brought musical acts to Cypress Glenn and was often found walking the halls singing to himself or with other residents and staff.
Reid’s family would like to express special thanks to Stacy Johnson, owner of Stacy’s @ Home Healthcare, LLC, who cared for Margaret prior to her death, and who remained dedicated to Reid until his death. Also, the family is deeply thankful for the loving care Reid received from the staff at Cypress Glen, especially during the last days of his life. That love and tenderness towards him and his family in his last days certainly allowed him to depart this world in a beautiful and dignified manner as the true southern gentleman he was. He left a legacy of joy that will fill the hearts of family and friends for years to come.
A Celebration of Reid’s life will be held on Saturday, April 27, 2024, at 12:00 PM at First United Methodist Church, 100 South Church Street, Rocky Mount, NC 27804 with Rev. Dr. David Joyner, Senior Pastor, officiating. A private burial at Westview Cemetery in Kinston will follow at a later date. The family will receive friends and relatives on Friday, April 26, 2024, from 5:00 PM to 7:00 PM at Wheeler & Woodlief Funeral Home.
In lieu of flowers, the family requests that memorial gifts be made to the Reid Parrott Scholarship in care of Nash Community College Foundation, 522 N. Old Carriage Road, Rocky Mount, NC 27804.
Arrangements entrusted to Wheeler & Woodlief Funeral Home & Cremation Services, 1130 N. Winstead Avenue, Rocky Mount, NC 27804. You may share memories and condolences with the family by visiting www.wheelerwoodlief.com.
Jake, I am so sorry to hear of the passing of your father. Hugs and prayers for you and your family.Love,Linda Baggett Fowler
Reid Parrott was one of a kind. I remember when I attended Nash Community College, he saw where I was struggling to get my educational career back on the right track.
Even after I transferred to NC Wesleyan University, I stayed in contact with him. I returned to Nash Community College to join the Foundation Board in 2005 to help other students who needed help furthering their education.
Reid inspired everyone he came in contact with. Our lives are better knowing Reid.
Dr. Parrott was president at Nash Community College when I was student body president in the mid-90’s. He was always so down to earth and approachable; he became a good friend to me. Through the years, whenever I saw him around town, he always seemed thrilled to see me, as I was him, and we would talk a few minutes. Even if years passed between visits, he was still the same Dr. Parrott. He had a way of making you feel like you were the most important person in the room. He wrote me a very nice, encouraging letter during my time as president. I still have it, and still read it from time to time. I will always cherish my fond memories of this kind man. My condolences to his family.
Jake, I am so sorry to hear of your dad’s passing. Although it had been many years since I’d seen him as I moved away from Rocky Mount in 2001, I was very fond of him.
He was always friendly, was loved by many and I know he will be greatly missed. He climbed to great heights in his career and I’m sure he left a positive influence on many who crossed his path.
And in the early 1980’s as a young female entrepreneur in a totally male dominated medical field, I will never forget how supportive he was during my career.
He will be remembered by his beaming smile, quick wit, kindness and supportive disposition.
Through God’s grace may you and your family find peace from a life well lived in service to others. I will have all of you in my prayers over the coming days.
Most sincerely, Gloria (Matthews) Gunther
On behalf of the Richard S. Proctor, Jr. family, I would like to express our sympathy to Reid’s family. Reid was our cousin, but also our friend who we – especially my father and mother – shared many fond memories. Jake, Ben, Donald and Hubert your dad and brother was a special man who will be missed but not forgotten!
And, for Reid – Go Wolfpack!
I remember Dr. Parrott. Rest in Peace #nashcommunitycollege
I will always remember Reid, as a high school classmate, for his wit, bringing laughter to all of us, and his gentlemanly ways,…always! Loved many double dates with his pretty Margaret, and their love for each other. My prayers for all the family, and for Reid….RIP! 🩷💕
To the family of Reid Parrott… Besides knowing of him in the community, it personally came to know him through caring for him working at a medical practice. But he also lived 2 blocks down from my family and I. Both my girls would go trick or treating every year and he was always happy to greet them and we talked. When our youngest daughter Allison, went to his house (after he moved from Ridgecrest) Halloween when she was still very young, he talked to her about going to college when she was older. And he told her, now when you are ready, when you graduate high school, you come to me and let me know. I will make sure I help you with that. She always remembered that. Fast forward years later, and she contacted him and he kept his word. She graduated last fall with her Associates Degree in Arts and is now pursuing her Bachelor’s Degree.
Dr. Parrott was such a kind and caring man and left individual impacts on people like this. I loved him as a humorous and sweet patient, and so did my coworkers; and we all loved him as a personable and caring, smart gentleman. So just wanted to share this with you, his family, and express how much he meant to us, and of course soooo many others. He was an angel here and now in heaven. Our prayers are with you during this time.
Sincerely,
The Levijoki family
Deepest sympathy and condolences as you remember your Dad. May you find comfort and support in the memories you cherish today and in days to come.
A very special person that made a tremendous difference to not only Nash County but to the World. Reid will always be special to Debbie and I. He was a true and beloved friend to the late Allen & Winnie Brown who I know were standing at the Gates to greet Reid.
I will always be grateful for the friendship and mentoring that Reid extended to me over the years and there have been, and will be, many decisions in my life that I first ask “What would Reid and Allen do?”.
We had so many great times at the ball games and Reid was never far from a phone or a dear friend.
I would like to express my deepest sympathy to the Family of Dr Parrott had the great pleasure and privilege to be Mrs Parrott care giver while employed with Stacy’s Home Health Care. They both embraced me from the first hello! Oh my when Mr Reid found out I could cook it was go! (Smile). As the years went by I would often see him at Smiths Restaurant and other places in the community, again the love was definitely shown and he made it known! He will be truly missed by myself and many other.
Respectfully, LaKeita Moore and Family
Dr. Parrott, I know Mrs. P was so happy to be greeting you in Heaven.
You both brought so much joy to me. I’m so happy that you’re both together; Eternal resting place.
The Parrott family you’re in my prayers
It was our family’s pleasure to know Reid and Margaret, and to be good friends, for almost 50 years. Will never forget the fun neighborhood parties and seeing Reid at his funniest. Reid was a very bright guy and a good educator. I was always proud of his achievements in the field of education. Reid and I were always relaxed around each other talking sports, politics and many other subjects. He was a great
friend and we will miss him…………Faye and Bob Southerland
I first met Reid thru Larry Mewborn’s baseball trips, and recognized right away his quick wit and ease with conversing with strangers. Later I would see him in Christophers restaurant in Kinston where our train crew would frequently stop for lunch. After learning of his stay at Cyprus Glen I began visiting almost every thursday, bringing him a chocolate milk shake from the Little Rocket in Farmville. Of course he had a story about the pretty women from Farmville. Reid was always thankful and showed apprection for my effort and time. He will be missed!
Thinking of each and everyone of you during this difficult time. You are in our thoughts and prayers. We love yall! Lee and Billy Taylor
Our deepest sympathies for your loss. With love, Benton, Katy, and Parker
As Coach Whitfield would say, “Legendary.” This is Reid Parrott. Reid is legendary – to his family, friends, colleagues, and to Rocky Mount and Nash County. I will miss the baseball, BBQ, Pirate, and Wolfpack conversations…just to name a few. You will be missed…
To All of Reid’s Family,
Reid was born in August and I was born in July so we were the youngest in our classes. As a matter of fact, Reid may have been the only member of our class who was slightly younger than me.
Reid was a dear friend for me for almost all of our lives. He was the life of every party or gathering I ever attended with him.
The photos attached were from a gathering of our Grainger High School classmates in 2021 as we all remained close since childhood.
I will always remember my friend and to all of his family, please accept my sincere condolence for your loss.
Marshall Happer