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Loretta Bland Oakley

January 5, 1939 ~ August 25, 2026

Born in: Davidson County, NC
Resided in: Rocky Mount, NC

Rocky Mount – Loretta Bland Oakley, 87, passed away on August 25, 2026. She was born on January 5, 1939, in Thomasville, North Carolina, to Charles Christopher Bland and Callie Brady Bland. The youngest of ten children, Loretta was preceded in death by her parents and all nine of her siblings: sisters Kathleen Riddick, Dellavenia Kimmons, Thelma Maxine Burkhart, and Nancy Dover; and brothers Elmer Charles Bland, Daniel Estill Bland, Harold Eugene Bland, Joseph Furman Bland, and Jerry Dean Bland.

Loretta graduated from Thomasville High School in 1957. She married Alton Arris Oakley of Rocky Mount, North Carolina, on October 14, 1967. The couple lived in Durham before making their home in Rocky Mount.

Throughout her career, Loretta worked at the Thomasville Times and Commercial Credit in Greenville, South Carolina. After moving to Rocky Mount, she worked for Leggett Myers Tobacco Company and Planters Bank.

Loretta was a woman of many interests and simple joys. She loved to read, particularly thrillers, and John Grisham was among her favorite authors. She enjoyed puzzles and was adept at solving crosswords and cryptoquotes. A devoted college sports fan, she especially enjoyed UNC basketball. She loved playing cards, even when her opponent was simply herself in a game of solitaire. The beach was her happy place, and she treasured the time she spent with family and friends in Nags Head.

Loretta also had a special love for dogs. She took great joy in their companionship and cherished the affection, loyalty, and happiness they brought into her life. Her love for dogs was another reflection of her warm and caring nature, and the memories of the beloved dogs she shared her life with will remain dear to her family.

Above all else, Loretta loved her family. She is survived by her husband of nearly sixty years, Alton, her son Christopher Arris Oakley and his wife, Lacey L. Gray, of Winterville, North Carolina; her daughter-in-law, Jennifer Nevins Hall, of Beaumont, Texas; granddaughter Callie Hall Orr and her husband, Jonathan Orr, of Rhode Island; grandson Jake Tanner Oakley Hall of Beaumont, Texas; and more than two dozen nieces, nephews, and cousins. She was preceded in death by her son, Ronald James Hall.

A visitation with family and friends will be held on Wednesday, September 2, 2026, from 12:00 PM to 2:00 PM at Wheeler & Woodlief Funeral Home and Cremation Services.

The family extends its heartfelt gratitude to the doctors, nurses, and staff members at the Danny Talbot Cancer Center and UNC Nash Hospice Center for the incredible love, kindness, and support they provided to Loretta and her family.

In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made in Loretta’s memory to American Cancer Society, PO Box 11796, Charlotte, NC  28220.

Arrangements entrusted to Wheeler & Woodlief Funeral Home and Cremation Services, 1130 N. Winstead Avenue, Rocky Mount, NC 27804.  You may share memories and condolences with the family by visiting www.wheelerwoodlief.com.

Services

Visitation: Wednesday, September 2, 2026 12:00 pm - 2:00 pm

Wheeler & Woodlief Funeral Home & Cremation Services
1130 N Winstead Avenue
Rocky Mount, NC 27804

(252) 451-8800

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Charities

The family greatly appreciates donations made to these charities in Loretta Bland Oakley 's name.

American Cancer Society

PO Box 11796

Charlotte,

NC

28220

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  1. We are so sorry for your loss. There are no words that can make this easier, but please know that we are thinking of you both and keeping your family in our prayers. Your mom fought so hard, and I know how much love and care you surrounded her with throughout these last three years.

    I also know how much joy Georgie brought her. The love she had for her grand-doggie was so special, and I’m sure Georgie’s happy visits and companionship brightened many of her days.

    Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. If there’s anything we can do, or if you just need someone to listen, we’re here for you both. ❤️

  2. Loretta was a very dear friend for almost 40 yrs. We were able to talk about anything and helped each other get through so many hard times. We had even more times of just pure fun being together, going on trips together (we let our husbands do along too), raising our grandchildren, and helping each other. She was very unselfish and always ready to help others. I will miss her everyday.

  3. Alton, I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your beloved Loretta. Please know that Al & I are keeping you and your family close in prayer.

  4. Aunt Loretta, though we are on opposite coast lines you always made your presence with notes and cards. The times that we did share the day I always felt good throughout my life. Each time I pick up a crossword I know that in some way you will give me a hint when I am stuck. Love from the Oakleys on the west coast will be with you and Uncle Alton. Thank you for being one of the best Aunt Loretta.

  5. Bill L. Dunn ” Please know that I am thinking of you in the days ahead! You have set an example for all of us that have known you since our high school years at RMSH ! The way you cared for your dear wife was just very special . Hope to come down from Raleigh in a few weeks and we can go out to lunch ! ” Sincerely, Bill D.

  6. Our deepest and most heartfelt condolences. You are in our prayers and thoughts during this difficult time.
    May the Beautiful memories of Loretta bring comfort to your hearts.
    Our love always,
    Allen and Rocio Snider


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