Margaret Langley Smith died at Kindred Nursing Center on Friday, December 6, 2013, having been a patient there after suffering from a fall in June. Her birthplace in 1924, was just down the road in the West Mount Community where she lived her entire 89 years.
At her birth, to Susan Bone Langley and Frank W. Langley, now deceased, she was the baby of six brothers and sisters: William Dawes, Gordan Dawes, Jack Langley, George Langley, Undine Lamm and Jewel Harkey, all deceased. Margaret adored all her big brothers and sisters. After her mother became a widow, Margaret and her husband, Rudolph S. Smith made a home for Mrs. Susan. For twenty years, their home was the gathering place for all her siblings and their children. Even after her mothers death, her home was the family home for a growing number of nieces, nephews, great-nieces and great-nephews and has continued on to the present.
Margaret attended Nash County Schools and graduated from Benvenue High School as valedictorian. She grew up with Rudolph and after his service, during World War II, they married on April 14, 1946 at Morton Memorial Presbyterian Church in the West Mount Community. At his death, they had celebrated 65 years of marriage.
In this marriage were born four children: Susan Arey, Roslyn Gragg (Larry), Rudy Smith, and Beth Smith. The four, plus twenty - some first cousins, made for a lively household on holidays and every day. Margaret was a devoted wife and mother. One year she actually was PTA President at four different schools.
The family worshiped at Bethlehem Presbyterian Church in the West Mount Community; a church founded by her in-laws, Mattie Culpepper and Fred Smith, deceased. At Bethlehem, Margaret was an Elder of the Session, active in Womens Circles, Sunday School, Bible School, and always the Reader for the Christmas Cantata.
Faith, family, and friends were her passion. As financial officer of Rocky Mount Schools, she still found time to serve her community in the Home Demonstration Club, Womens Club, Ruritans, 4-H, and local charities. Several times she was awarded Woman of the Year for her dedication to her community and her church. Many neighborhood couples had Margaret as their wedding director.
After her retirement, she and Rudolph traveled and welcomed six grandchildren: Meg Arey Bell (Ray), Jennifer Arey Holloman (Steve), Marley Gragg Ungaro (Andrew), Allen Gragg (Rachael), Jeffrey Valentine, and Amanda Smith. Nana and Gooddaddy were always eager to babysit, play, shop, and prepare Sunday lunch at their home on Bethlehem Road.
Great-grandchildren were added to this large, lively, happy family: Langley Ungaro, Grey Ungaro, Roman Desmond, Stephen Holloman, Jr., Joshua Holloman, and Arby Bell.
For Margarets 80th Birthday, her family compiled and created a cookbook with all her famous recipes. Her legacy of entertaining will be continued along with her graciousness and strength and especially her devotion to her family, her friends, and her faith.
Margaret leaves behind her children, grandchildren, great-grandchildren, her sister-in-love, Mattieleene Johnson, many loved nieces, nephews, and friends, especially her bedside companion, Dee Welsh, who has blessed the family with her devotion to Miss Margaret.
In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations to Tar River Mission Clinic, 1041 Noell Lane, Rocky Mount, NC 27804.
The family will receive friends from 2:00-3:00pm on Monday, December 9, 2013 at Wheeler and Woodlief Funeral Home. A service to remember Margaret will be held at 3:00pm at the funeral home with Rev. Dan Davis officiating. Burial will follow at Rocky Mount Memorial Park.
Arrangements entrusted to Wheeler and Woodlief Funeral Home, 1130 North Winstead Avenue, Rocky Mount, NC 27804. You may share your memories and condolences with the family by visiting www.wheelerwoodlief.com
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Wheeler & Woodlief Funeral Home & Cremation Services
1130 N. Winstead Ave.
Rocky Mount, NC 27804
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Monday 12/9, 2:00 pm - 3:00 pm
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Wheeler & Woodlief Funeral Home & Cremation Services
1130 N. Winstead Ave.
Rocky Mount, NC 27804
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Monday 12/9, 3:00 pm
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Rocky Mount Memorial Park
4454 Dortches Blvd., Hwy 43
Rocky Mount, NC 27804
Please accept our deepest condolences for your family’s loss.
Mrs. Smith was a wonderful lady who always welcomed you in her home and heart and made you feel special. I am so sorry for your loss. Jan Mullen
There are so many fond memories growing up with Rudolph and Margaret. They were such a big help to my mom when my dad Clyde Graham House passed. Rudolph had helped dad set up what to be done with all the saddles and other horse accounts so mom would be looked after in a difficult time. I give all my best wishes to the children at yet another time of grief from losing a dear parent. Prayers are with you all. Love Janell
From all of us here at Shenandoah Baptist Church, we offer our sincere sympathy to you in the passing of your loved one. We know that this is a very tender moment for you as you think upon the memories of this one whom you loved. Many of us have experienced loss ourselves, and we understand what you are going through. We want you to know that we are praying for you during these days. In addition, if we can offer any kind of encouragement for you, please do not hesitate to call us. All the pastoral staff is glad to assist you. Finally, if you do not have a church home, we would love to have you visit Shenandoah Baptist. We are located at 3894 Shenandoah Drive, Rocky Mount, N. C. 27803, and our phone number is 252-446-5732. May God richly bless you in the days to come. Sincerely in Christ, Taylor Whitley
Working with Mrs. Smith was one of my joys in my life. We would share the word of God every day and have prayer, no matter how she felt that was always important to her. She would always want to pray for her children and friends. We laughed a lot from her wit and humor and we also cried a lot in the end. What blessing in my life she and her family have been. Love and prayers to you all. Love You, Dee Welch
Our sympathies are expressed to the family of Mrs. Smith at her passing. May her memories give you comfort now and always. No one can take the place of our mother, but we can carry the legacy of love and devotion to the next generation. Love and prayers, Edith and Mervin Jenkins
Please share our appreciation with the family that Tar River Mission Clinic was designated as a charity of choice for donations. We very much appreciate the gifts and will acknowledge each one individually to the donors. Thank you. Gene Wilson Tar River Mission Clinic 252-962-3455