John Dewey Weaver, Jr, age 91, died peacefully at his home in Raleigh on June 1, 2014 with his family at his bedside. He was born in Rocky Mount, North Carolina on March 25, 1923 to Mary Faulkner Weaver and John Dewey Weaver.
He graduated from Rocky Mount High School in 1941 and, after pausing his education at Georgia Tech to proudly serve his country in the US Navy during World War II, graduated from Georgia Tech in 1949 with a BS in Civil Engineering. His first and only job was with D.J. Rose & Son which he joined when he returned to Rocky Mount. He became President in 1961 and remained with the company for more than 50 years.
Mr. Weaver was a life member of the Board of Directors of Peoples Bank, which later became Centura Bank. He served on the Board of Trustees at N.C. Wesleyan College and became Trustee Emeritus after many years of serving. He was a Founding Board Member for Rocky Mount Academy. He served on the board of the Rocky Mount YMCA, was Chairman of the Nash County United Way and served as President of Benvenue Country Club. He was on the board and served as president of the North Carolina Association of General Contractors as well as serving on the National AGC board.
He was actively involved in raising money for cancer research and others in need. With his friends and family, he began the annual Lane Weaver Memorial Golf Tournament which raised over $500,000 for cancer research during its 23 year run. He was also actively involved in raising funds for and in helping build the Wright Center in Rocky Mount, an adult day care center for disabled and cognitively impaired elderly patients.
He was an active member of St. Andrews Episcopal Church in Rocky Mount where he served on the Vestry and also as Treasurer, Junior and Senior Warden on numerous occasions. He was dedicated to his church, his work and also enjoyed golfing, sailing, fishing and most of all, spending time with his family.
Dewey is survived by his wife of 57 years, Ann Divine Weaver. He is also survived by daughter Susan Weaver Smith and her husband William Franklin Smith of Martinsville, Virginia; son John Dewey Weaver, III and his wife Anne Duncan Weaver of Raleigh, North Carolina; son Morrison Coit Weaver and his wife Lisa Williams Weaver of Apex, North Carolina. He was preceded in death by
two daughters, Elizabeth Lane Weaver and Ann MacPherson Weaver. He is also survived by grandchildren William Woodson Smith and Ann Mason Smith of Martinsville, Virginia; John Dewey Weaver, IV, Anne Duncan Weaver and Benjamin Holland Weaver of Raleigh, North Carolina; Morrison Coit Weaver Jr and Olivia Lane Weaver of Apex, North Carolina; sister Mary Elizabeth Weaver Daniels of Raleigh, North Carolina, her children, Kim and John and their children, as well as numerous cousins from the Faulkner and Weaver families.
A graveside service, officiated by John Yates, III, Rector of Holy Trinity Church in Raleigh, will be held at 11:30am, on Wednesday, June 4, 2014 at Pineview Cemetery in Rocky Mount, North Carolina.
The family will greet guests at grave site and will also receive visitors at their home 2701 Glenwood Gardens Lane in Raleigh following the service.
In lieu of flowers, the family suggest that memorials be sent to either The Ann MacPherson Weaver Scholarship Fund at Rocky Mount Academy, Transitions Life Care (formerly Hospice of Wake County) or the charity of your choice. Funeral arrangements are being made by Wheeler & Woodlief Funeral Home, 1130 N. Winstead Avenue, Rocky Mount, North Carolina (www.wheelerwoodlief.com).
The Weaver family is very grateful to his long time caregiver Darryl Laton, to Joe Mabiala, to his wonderful Hospice team, including Adam Smith and especially Musa Manneh.
Service
Pineview Cemetery
761 N. Raleigh Road
Rocky Mount, NC 27801
Wednesday 6/25, 11:30 am
Cemetery
Pineview Cemetery
761 N. Raleigh Road
Rocky Mount, NC 27801
Please accept our deepest condolences for your family’s loss.
My thoughts & prayers are with the Weaver family at this time. I had business dealings with Dewey in the mid 1960’s. During my 46 years in construction related work, I never dealt with any better business man than Dewey Weaver. I have thought of him many times and was thankful to have known him. Neil Murphey Winder, Georgia
Good Afternoon Anne and family, All of you all lost a Husband, or Father, or Grandfather; I lost a real friend. One that I have so many fond memories, golfing, fishing, and traveling about our beautiful Country. I wish I had done more for my friend in later years. My regret is that his illness has taken so many of my friends and now working on my daughter, Mary, that I could bring myself to face the facts. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all in these hours. Your memories like ours are so great. Love to you all…William and Elaine Lytton
To Mrs. Ann Weaver and Family, May the memories that you each have of Dewey continue to warm your hearts in the years to come. The Wright’s Center, Inc. staff, Board of Directors, and current and past participants, will be forever grateful to Mr. Weaver and his family for his many tireless hours of volunteer service dedicated to the development of the adult day health care program, a first for Rocky Mount and surrounding communities. May God Bless you All. Doris A. Howington
I Feel your pain, in the loss of your loved one. Your faith will carry you through these times of sorrow. God is for us a refuge & strength. A help that is readily to be found during distresses. (Ps. 46 1) What a wonderful gift we have been given, to have the hope of seeing our loved ones again.