Losing someone to suicide is shocking, painful and unexpected. Part of being a survivor is to aim to adjust to life without your loved one. Grief work is often complex, intense and long term. There is healing and survivors will begin to enjoy life once again.
10 Ways to Honor Your Loved Ones:
1. Plant a tree or garden in their memory either at your home or in a park.
2. Some parks have a memorial program where you can plant a tree or bench with a plaque in their name.
3. Journal about your loved one.Ask your loved one’s relatives, friends, or co-workers to contribute their favorite memories or photos, and use them to make a scrapbook or memory box. Memories of your loved ones can be written down as thoughts, song lyrics, or through a poem.
4. Cook your loved one’s favorite meal, participate in activities they liked, listen to music they enjoyed, or read a book that reminds you of them.
5. Become involved in a support group or cause.
6.You can also further their memory and create awareness by establishing a scholarship in their name.
7. Light a candle in honor of your loved one.
8. Turn digital photos into a photo album on programs such as Shutterfly or Snapfish.
9. Watch your loved one’s favorite movie with their favorite snack. Invite others that were a part of his/her life.
10. Have a balloon release with close family members.
From the moment we contacted Wheeler and Woodlief Funeral Services, we were met with compassion, professionalism, and a level of care that brought us tremendous peace during a difficult time. Every detail was handled with grace and dignity, and their team ensured our loved one was honored in the most respectful way possible. Our pastor, who has officiated many services over the years, shared that this was the most kind, professional, and organized service he had ever been a part of—and we couldn't agree more. From the quiet support behind the scenes to the seamless coordination of every aspect of the ceremony, their attention to detail was unmatched. We are deeply grateful to the entire staff at Wheeler and Woodlief. They made a painful experience easier with their warmth, guidance, and dedication. Thank you for helping us celebrate a life well-lived with such honor and love.